Using Conflict as a Natural Resource

Conflict as a Natural Resource

Conflict as a Natural Resource When we train mediators at CAOS Conflict Management we do an exercise called 4-word-build where we look at the different perspectives attendees on the course have about the idea of ‘conflict’. Almost always the predominant Continue reading Using Conflict as a Natural Resource

Conflict and its Resolution from a Shamanic Perspective

Guest post by Marina Sala, Director of Choice Conflict Resolution   Conflict offers an opportunity to learn, grow and ultimately choose which of the two wolves we wish to feed. It also enables us to understand how our thinking shapes Continue reading Conflict and its Resolution from a Shamanic Perspective

Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it’s true?

Byron Katie

Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it’s true? I love these two questions, which are the first two of the 4 questions that make up ‘The Work’ – a process created by, or through, Byron Katie. So many Continue reading Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it’s true?

The Underlying Philosophies of Mediation

Underlying Philosophies of Mediation

What are the ‘Underlying Philosophies of Mediation?’ How does mediation differ from the other ADR (alternative dispute resolution) processes we often hear about?  This article introduces a set of posts designed to establish a framework of underlying philosophies of mediation Continue reading The Underlying Philosophies of Mediation

Effective responses to Conflict – Creating The ‘3-Cheers For Conflict’ -Learning, Connection and Insight

Effective responses to conflict - The 3-Cheers for Conflict

You may struggle to think of a resolved conflict in your life. It is often the case that we resolve our conflicts so effectively we hardly notice that we have done so. Hopefully, if you can think of a resolved Continue reading Effective responses to Conflict – Creating The ‘3-Cheers For Conflict’ -Learning, Connection and Insight

Ineffective Responses to Conflict: Part 2. Treating Conflict as a Problem to be Avoided

In this post and the previous one, Ineffective Responses to Conflict: Part 1.The Competitive Approach, I describe the two common ways in which we all respond to conflict at different times in such a way that it will never be resolved, simply Continue reading Ineffective Responses to Conflict: Part 2. Treating Conflict as a Problem to be Avoided

Ineffective Responses to Conflict: Part 1. The Competitive Approach

The Competitive Approach - one of the ineffective responses to conflict

  In this post and the next one, Ineffective Responses to Conflict: Part 2. Treating Conflict as a Problem to be Avoided, I will describe the two common ways in which we all respond to conflict at different times in such a Continue reading Ineffective Responses to Conflict: Part 1. The Competitive Approach