Using Conflict as a Natural Resource

Conflict as a Natural Resource When we train mediators at CAOS Conflict Management we do an exercise called 4-word-build where we look at the different perspectives attendees on the course have about the idea of ‘conflict’. Almost always the predominant Continue reading Using Conflict as a Natural Resource

Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it’s true?

Byron Katie

Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it’s true? I love these two questions, which are the first two of the 4 questions that make up ‘The Work’ – a process created by, or through, Byron Katie. So many Continue reading Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it’s true?

“The Conflict between Right and Wrong is the Sickness of the Mind”

The Conflict Between Right and Wrong The perfect way is without difficulty Save that it avoids picking and choosing. Only when you stop liking and disliking Will all be clearly understood. A split hair’s difference, And Heaven and Earth are Continue reading “The Conflict between Right and Wrong is the Sickness of the Mind”

Effective responses to Conflict – Creating The ‘3-Cheers For Conflict’ -Learning, Connection and Insight

Effective responses to conflict - The 3-Cheers for Conflict

You may struggle to think of a resolved conflict in your life. It is often the case that we resolve our conflicts so effectively we hardly notice that we have done so. Hopefully, if you can think of a resolved Continue reading Effective responses to Conflict – Creating The ‘3-Cheers For Conflict’ -Learning, Connection and Insight